Aftermath of Relationship/Marriage with or without a child
My hope and optimism from writing this article is for helping individuals to choose letting go of sufferings that are with the mental, emotional, spiritual and physical aspects for easier healing with SRT sessions exponentially. This content is for individuals to have either gone through a major ordeal with a spouse in a marriage, with a ‘spouse to be’ in a relationship that’s coming to end, both parties have worked on selves to make the relationship better but it had been worst, only one partner working on the relationship for the better, being together was personal motivation of appeasement not to separate or difficulties finding the balance from the aftermath of the whole shabang.
There could be other experiences between couples that are not limited to what I’ve written above. My desire is to support healing and recovery with individuals from reducing the aftermath effects that are mental, emotional and/or physical for exponentially better to enable moving forward to new beginnings be it with/without child or even to begin dating a new identified love interest.
Brief overview of How a relationship/marriage that didn’t work out:
An intimate relationship towards marriage is set up and chosen together between 2 souls (spiritual beings having human experiences) from a scheduled time of life in present incarnation to meet in this world. Once these 2 individuals meet then decide to be in the relationship towards marriage, there are scheduled karmic lessons to fulfill in the spiritual contract agreement + the akashic records from the Divine blueprint of respective Divine plan until resolving from positive learnings through love-based expressions. There have been fear-based programs in place. There could already be unhappiness and disharmony that are subtle between the couple due from differing personalities, characters, different interest and etc. Then, wishing that having a child could change things up abit. Once having a child decided by the couple mutually (or having one that was “mistakeable”), it is already set into motion. All that are this is very much coming from the mentioned spiritual contract + Divine plan. There can be with a slight twist of experience by the Soul (being fetus@soon to be born child) who would be part of the family unit. As a result of this, there are some emotional imbalance or other sufferings between the parents and child after birth. If the couple have some programs triggered during this period after having a new born which goes unresolved from not knowing what is the trigger somehow, everyone suffers. The new born child could have programs of picking up emotional energies from either parent or both parents hence baby cries often or easily feel uncomfortable. As time goes by, couple’s issues or difficulties getting along unresolved became major problems resulting in separation. There is mental and emotional gunk carried by everyone that is the aftermath. The child of the couple who experience the aftermath could be a victim emotionally or otherwise, which is very much dependant on the adults to be aware to comfort the child.
Note: The Soul(being fetus@soon to be born child) may just decide to land by grace during the couple’s sexual intimacy time that is non-contractual agreement too but still part of the Divine plan of the couple.
What are the positive learnings + growth in a relationship+marriage?
There cannot be only one person in a relationship making things work from love with positively expressing most of the time as this only creates fatique, apathy or just gunks up any positive energies between each other over time. When there is a child, the little one suffers along with the couple for sure. Some children can pick up energetic emotions from parents when they do not understand what the tensions or issues going on are. Couples or one other partner being irresponsible of owning inappropriate self-conduct often will cause the relationship+marriage to end up in separation. Best is to choose forgiveness from love then bless with love and light for best and highest good to all affected.
So, being in an intimate relationship+marriage with a partner who operates from positive expressions of love, care, happiness and more would be truly the better determinant of 2 people as a team in cohesive ways to live well together. Of course, being with the right partner also means this individual will have 4 types of intimacy which are mental, emotional, spiritual and physical wholeness that are complementary makes an exponential difference.
Therefore, being aware of SRT work is helpful to any individual not to be a victim again by recognizing incorrect set up of themes and challenges with programs for the aftermath of a relationship/marriage to happen. Akashic records, spiritual contract and Divine plan are looked at if need be for positive changes.
SOoo…then…the aftermath was / is affecting my mental, emotional, physical and spiritual state, what to do?
Briefly, these 3 or 4 types of intimacy aspects requires healing from identifying to clear the programs and energies and for closing any openings, cracks and holes from the aftermath as well…
As / When the relationship+marriage didn’t work out resulting in separation or divorce with:
- No child/children..You would love to move forward for positive changes and acclimatize to new experiences that are non-sufferings. My optimism is to help you move forward with SRT sessions in healing the 4 intimacy components state, checking out any blocks to navigate through greatly in optimum living and other blocking aspects.
- Have a child/children with the former partner in co-parenting who’s moved out. You would love to move forward for positive changes and acclimatize to new experiences with the hope of being with the right partner for non-sufferings once there is readiness. My optimism is to help you move forward with SRT sessions in healing the 4 intimacy components state, checking out any blocks to navigate through a new lifestyle with your child/children with the former partner in co-parenting well and other blocking aspects.
- The child/children in your full custody and co-parenting isn’t exactly agreed after the split. You would love to move forward for positive changes and acclimatize to new experiences. However, it’s tough navigation with a child/children that’s new lifestyle altogether without the partner. My optimism is to help you move forward with SRT sessions in healing the 4 intimacy components state, checking out any blocks to navigate through a new lifestyle with your child/children greatly and other blocking aspects.
- The child/children in your full custody, co-parenting isn’t exactly agreed after the split and you are interested in dating someone. You would love to move forward for positive changes, navigation with a child/children in a new lifestyle greatly and interested to know someone in order to start dating. However, there are some fearfulness, stress or worry about this person being disliking and unaccepting of your parenthood status. My optimism is to help you move forward with SRT sessions in healing the 4 intimacy components state, checking out any blocks to navigate through greatly with your child/children if there is still struggles, checking out any blocks that you and this new person could have on your parenthood status and other blocking aspects.
What are gainful from SRT sessions?
- Having more love, compassion, wisdom and abundance of good in the new path.
- Being more comfortable with a renewed sense of being in positive expressions unlike before.
- Having new renewed interest in the things that you loved doing and openness to new activities
- Getting to know there is a right partner not for sufferings again with some same or similar bad attitude from your Divine blueprint and Divine plan. Hopefully, there is a right partner not from your own Divine plan without sufferings from spiritual contractual agreement + the akashic records also.
- Getting to know if a new love interest is the right partner with 4 components of mind, physical, spiritual and emotional intimacy that are non-toxic patterns and compatible to get married to and live until last breath from natural death.
- From having the right partner to know the compatibility with your child/children that are just love, care and support in ways.
- Not having any more kids, child-free, no abortion, no miscarriages, no stillbirth, no affairs, no toxic in-laws to be in order all the way through without exceptions.
- Answered spiritual questions with greater truth for clarity, wisdom, peace, forgiveness, non-judgement, freedom and love.
Please do be open, gentle, forgiving and loving to yourself in being very alright with vulnerability from the ordeal that lead to an ending union. Do not be attached to the believes and feelings of unworthiness, of being dumb, stupid, an idiot or foolish to being a failure to realize only now of true feelings towards the partner that was without deep love….
Gain wisdom from any mistakes made with the supportiveness and helpfulness from the High Self committee+SPIRIT. Choose to give and receive blessings with love and light from having openness to having many new experiences with your child or children and a new partner if there is one.
Don’t let more time pass by as You and I in SRT session more than one session can resolve any issues or difficulties in the way of moving forward optimistically….so…Call or Email me soon for an appointment!
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